On such an important subject, we are too often silent at home, at church, and in school classrooms. Among 500 adults, 82 percent judged a satisfying sex life as "important" or "very important." Sex came in fourth behind loving family relationships (99 percent), financial security (98 percent), and religion (86 percent). A survey sponsored by Columbia University and the National Institutes of Health asked people to rate the importance of sex and other factors in their lives. As I usually do in responding to questions, I turned to the data that science can provide for answers. That seemed the most fundamental question of all and one that deserved a serious answer. (I’m convinced the questioner was male.) "What’s the big deal?" It came from a student in Chesapeake, Virginia. It just had to provide the framework for the entire book. My favorite question, however, was too good to relegate to a single chapter. They are answered here one by one, with a lot of facts and a few (I hope) well-supported opinions. Nonetheless, as time went on, more and more questions came in from serious and thoughtful young adults. Some schools and teachers who had been eager to help in the past chose not to participate this time. Some questions were silly, embarrassed, or obscene. Unlike other books in this series that dealt with such topics as food and skin, getting questions was difficult. This book began with the collection of questions about sex and sexuality from middle school and high school students.
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